Relationships · Dating

First date tips, done with respect.

Confidence gets you the date. Respect and real interest get you the second. Learn to ask someone out, read real interest and take a no well, in five minutes of your scroll time a day.

Coming to the App Store

The whole Relationships track

First lesson free · Free week on the annual plan · No account to start

In the Relationships track

What you'll find out.

You've watched hundreds of videos and kept almost none of it. MASTRD is only the ideas that matter, and everything you learn keeps coming back. Here are five of them; the how is in the lessons.

  1. Why a polite yes to a date can hide a no
  2. The difference between interest that attracts and interest that backfires
  3. The one thing most people underestimate after meeting someone new
  4. Why expecting rejection makes you see it where it isn't
  5. How to ask someone out so a no stays easy for both of you

Why it sticks

Five reasons it never stuck. Fixed.

  • You forgot it.

    A system designed to help you remember brings every idea back right before you'd forget it.

  • You never used it.

    Every lesson makes you use it: real situations, spotting the mistake, saying it out loud. Then you try it for real and check in on how it went.

  • You had no time.

    It takes five minutes of your scroll time, and refreshers wait on your lock screen.

  • You learned from the wrong people.

    Built on how self-made founders and executives actually work, plus research and specialists.

  • You did it alone.

    Your circle of up to 12 friends sees whether you kept your standard this week, and can nudge you when you slip.

Questions

Questions, answered.

  • When interest isn't mutual, both people feel it, so how you ask matters as much as whether you do. The lessons cover asking, reading a real yes and taking a no well.

  • Deeper questions go better than people expect: in experiments, strangers found them less awkward and more connecting than they predicted. The lessons cover questions that get real stories and reading mutual interest.

  • No single sign proves it, and friendly can look a lot like flirty. The lessons cover what mutual interest looks like over time, and the not-interested signals to respect.

Start with relationships.

On the annual plan: a free week, then under 20 cents a day.

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